New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

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Teddybears2017
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#151 Post by Teddybears2017 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 8:10 am

Oh hun hope your ok. I also got bright red bleeding with my bfp and panic not the word. I also got into hospital for checks/scan. I was told bleeding one of the most common things with ivf I had bleeds up to 9 weeks then it stopped. Take care xxx ps they said I had bleeds due to 2 other sacks but I dont think it was that x
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IVF#1 FEB 2018 DONOR FRESH=BFN :(
Changed Clinic
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#152 Post by Tony11 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 8:40 am

Thank you so much for your reply Teddybears xxx

Did you have any niggles or pain? I’m going to hospital in a bit, dreading it.

It is just awful isn’t it this whole process is the worst a woman can go through!!

How are you? Have you decided to carry on?
Xxxx

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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#153 Post by Smudge75 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 8:52 am

Tony11 wrote:
Tue Sep 15, 2020 7:34 am
I started bleeding last night 😢 what happened with you when you had your chemical pregnancy? My heads just a mess I’m going to have to go hospital

Xxx
Try not to panic it could by anything as others will testify. Go and get checked, I have everything crossed for you. I know its horrible and you’ll think the worst and I’m so sorry you’re experiencing this lovely this process is bloody hard, filled with so many highs and lows. Keep us posted. Sending lots of love Xx
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

Teddybears2017
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#154 Post by Teddybears2017 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 9:31 am

When I started bleeding I did have af pains which just mild but I started bleeding in Morrison toilets while out for lunch. But everyone is different hun but just take one step at a time and see what hospital say. The one I went too was so good but they do tell you to prepare if scanning you that you might not see much at such a early stage. I keep checking to see how you are hun xxx ps yes hun just waiting for af but im just taking one step every day as it takes it right out of us mind, body and sole. Xxx
Me 46
Partner 46
IVF#1 FEB 2018 DONOR FRESH=BFN :(
Changed Clinic
IVF#1 OCT 2018 DONOR FET=BFN :(
IVF#2 NOV 2018 DONOR FET=BFP :D

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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#155 Post by Tony11 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 9:23 am

Hi ladies, I was in hospital all day yesterday on my own too as you are still not allowed anyone with you. They done a scan and too early to see anything so have to go back next week so I am still none the wiser. Had bloods done and hcg high but doesn’t mean anything unless it’s increasing enough as you know. Just feel dreadful I don’t think it’s going to be good and in my head already preparing for what to do next which I have no idea what to do. I don’t think Iv ever felt so low I think I need counselling 😢 hope you are both ok on this horrible cruel journey xxxx

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#156 Post by Teddybears2017 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 10:34 am

Hi Tony11 oh hun its so not easy. I know when I got my bleeding I totally lost it. I just thought I lost my dream. I just thought I get a bfp and thats it I be ok. Nope I kepted on bleeding on and off right until 9 weeks. I still dont know why as my 2 other sacks never went and even caused problems at the birth. Im ok just taking small steps and make sure I can cope with my emotions as I know at any moment things could take a turn and every day I keep them incheck as they are so important to wellbeing... Im here ANYTIME hun xxx
Me 46
Partner 46
IVF#1 FEB 2018 DONOR FRESH=BFN :(
Changed Clinic
IVF#1 OCT 2018 DONOR FET=BFN :(
IVF#2 NOV 2018 DONOR FET=BFP :D

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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#157 Post by Tony11 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 11:25 am

Thank you Teddybears I really appreciate that 😘 it’s so nice to speak to people who have or are going through the same as people who haven’t done this journey just don’t understand just how difficult it really is... it is not good for mental health at all!! How old is your little girl now then? Are you not looking forward to doing the cycle again? Xxxx

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#158 Post by Teddybears2017 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 12:14 pm

Hi Tony11 my little girl will be 14 months old this month. I am looking forwards to cycling but since last time I kinda keep an open mind and my guard up. Its so not easy on the mind but I need to try these last few times to see if I can get that jackpot.. Im still in shock it worked and I got a bfp last time and im just worried I used up my luck :D Time will tell hun.xxx
Me 46
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IVF#1 FEB 2018 DONOR FRESH=BFN :(
Changed Clinic
IVF#1 OCT 2018 DONOR FET=BFN :(
IVF#2 NOV 2018 DONOR FET=BFP :D

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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#159 Post by Tony11 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 1:10 pm

I know exactly what you mean when you say you have to just try, when it’s inside your head you can’t give up and it doesn’t matter what anyone says!! There are lots of people it works again for so don’t give up... I read that if you get caught pregnant with ivf your chances are higher for it to work again, so fingers crossed Hun!! Bet it is a wonderful feeling to see your little girl that you worked so hard for ❤️Xxxx

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#160 Post by Teddybears2017 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 1:32 pm

Hi Tony11 shes my dream come true and while she sleeps I still look at her cannot believe shes all mine :-)
Keep us posted hun how you get on and im here ANYTIME :D xxx
Me 46
Partner 46
IVF#1 FEB 2018 DONOR FRESH=BFN :(
Changed Clinic
IVF#1 OCT 2018 DONOR FET=BFN :(
IVF#2 NOV 2018 DONOR FET=BFP :D

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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#161 Post by Smudge75 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 4:52 pm

Tony11 wrote:
Wed Sep 16, 2020 9:23 am
Hi ladies, I was in hospital all day yesterday on my own too as you are still not allowed anyone with you. They done a scan and too early to see anything so have to go back next week so I am still none the wiser. Had bloods done and hcg high but doesn’t mean anything unless it’s increasing enough as you know. Just feel dreadful I don’t think it’s going to be good and in my head already preparing for what to do next which I have no idea what to do. I don’t think Iv ever felt so low I think I need counselling 😢 hope you are both ok on this horrible cruel journey xxxx
You poor little love, you've gone through enough to get this far without ending up in hospital on your own and having to deal with this when you're no further forward with any answers. Will they monitor your bloods between now and next week's scan to check the levels are still increasing or have you just got to sit it out and wait? are you still bleeding? I hope you're off work and resting up, take care, always here if you need to chat xx
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

Tony11
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#162 Post by Tony11 » Wed Sep 16, 2020 6:25 pm

Teddybears so cute 🥰 I bet you do feel that way about her so lovely ❤️ I hope your cycle works and you get her a sibling!! Thank you love I really appreciate your kindness and support 😘xxxx


Smudge it’s just been awful from being so high getting the positive to having my feet pulled from beneath me!! My head is everywhere and the thought of having to go through it all over again just makes me want to be sick with nerves 😢

They said at first they would check bloods again then another doctor said no just wait till the scan but to be honest I’d rather just wait now as my head is a mess and don’t want the bloods taken then wait again for scan, my head can’t take much more!! No not bleeding at the moment but sometimes get little smear of brown when I wipe but nothing to talk about it’s just you analyse everything don’t you!! I get a mild dull feeling in my lower stomach like a period feeling but that comes and goes. Yes they gave me two week sick note, there is no way I could work in this state of mind!!

How are you love? Did you have the scan?
Xxxx

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#163 Post by Smudge75 » Thu Sep 17, 2020 8:04 am

I can imagine lovely, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Hopefully everything will be fine. Good to hear you’re no longer bleeding and brown blood is old blood could be implantation bleeding. Light cramping is normal as the embryo snuggles down and your muscles stretch. Big hugs, rest up and take care xx

I’m fine thank you, scan tomorrow x
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

Smudge75
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#164 Post by Smudge75 » Wed Sep 23, 2020 8:48 am

How are you getting on Tony, I really hope you’ve had no more bleeding and your scan went well.

I’ve had a cold last few days so not been on here but keep thinking about you xx
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

Tony11
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#165 Post by Tony11 » Thu Sep 24, 2020 12:02 pm

Hi Smudge

Thank you so much for your thoughtful message 😘

My scan is in the morning so we will see but I’m not hopeful I think we have miscarried. Iv spent the week preparing and thinking what we will do next so it doesn’t floor me!

How are you? How has your scans gone? Any idea when transfer could be?

Hope you’re ok
Xxxx

Smudge75
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#166 Post by Smudge75 » Thu Sep 24, 2020 1:00 pm

I really hope not lovely, I totally get preparing yourself for the worst but please still hope for the best ❤️

ET scheduled for Tuesday, anxious about the next few days and whether we’ll end up with anything to transfer 🙏🏼🤞🏻

Take care, let me know how you get on tomorrow, everything crossed xx
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

Tony11
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#167 Post by Tony11 » Thu Sep 24, 2020 1:39 pm

Oh wow how exciting!! Not long now then 🤞🙏 I am wishing hoping and praying for you you really deserve this!!!! Keep me up to date ❤️

Yes I will let you know lovely xxxx

Smudge75
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Re: New to IVF and wanted to see if anyone else is new or waiting to be matched

#168 Post by Smudge75 » Fri Sep 25, 2020 1:17 pm

Hoping everything was ok this morning xxx
02.08.16 BFP = miscarried
09.10.17 BFP = chemical
12.11.17 Natural IVF#1 = cancelled
03.12.17 Natural IVF#2 = cancelled
13.02.18 Natural IVF#3 = cancelled
15.04.18 BFP = miscarried
13.08.18 BFP = miscarried
01.08.20 ICSI with CARE - long protocol

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